Tea over Café

“None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm.” – Thoreau.

Getting older is something I can say I never dread. I absolutely adore birthdays. What a blessing they are. I don’t do much, just a good meal, conversations and a nice cocktail or glass of wine whether it’s with one person or a full table. Gifts are nice but not necessary as my tastes are quirky to put it nicely. I prefer to try a new meal, or a new restaurant over a gift.

A woman my area, just celebrated her 104th birthday. How wonderful. How fantastic. The stories she has to tell I immediately thought. I would love to sit down with her and ask about her experiences. I myself am turning 43 this month. Not a hip hip hooray year or a speed limit year but nonetheless I’m excited. I have no idea what I’m going to do or what I’m wearing but I’m ready to blow out some candles. I had a discussion not too long ago with women not too much older than me about grey hair. They were taken aback by me suggesting I would allow my hair to go full grey. Their fear and panic made me chuckle slightly but also sad for them as they dont see themselves how I see them. One mentioned, not wanting to look like a grandma. I shrug, as whats wrong with that. Would you not want to live long enough to see your children’s childen? Would you not want to live long enough to have a head full of greys? Maybe I’m too optimistic. But I’m grateful for it all. Grateful for God and all His beauty that I can see all around me. Grateful for my family that is here and no longer here as it was a pleasure. Grateful for my friends and acquaintances for their insights. Year 42 was another solid year. Was there challenges, yes. Im actually facing challenges as we speak. I dont however allow my challenges to rain on my parade as this too shall pass. I am blessed. I do realize that I am fortunate to have that perspective. I know of several individuals that battle with anxiety and depression and they are in my prayers always. My brief experience with anxiety and depression left an indelible mark on my life that I will never forget.

We don’t know when God will have that last sand end in our hourglass. Our time here is so short. Enjoy every day as best you can. Cheers to another trip around the sun for me and you 🙂